I thought I might have chosen the wrong place. The cafe was loud and full, the coffee machine competing with the scrape of chairs, conversations crossing over one another, and every second person through the door someone I knew. Lisa Fitzpatrick seemed gentle. Kind. Almost shy. I wondered if I should have chosen somewhere more private for a conversation about sex, heartbreak and menopause. I had brought questions, of course. Strong ones, I thought. Questions designed to move beyond the provocative title of her new book, Sexy Menopaus e , and into the substance beneath it. But as Lisa began to speak, the conversation found its own shape. My curiosities surfaced naturally, one after another, without needing to be introduced. Lisa was funny and articulate, able to move between the clinical and the deeply personal without making either feel diminished by the other. The gentleness remained, but something else began to reveal itself beside it. Lisa has worked as a physiotherapist for 33...
For years, I had noticed the unfinished house beyond Tyalgum. Set against the valley, it looked both permanent and incomplete: a broad timber structure overlooking Wollumbin, ambitious enough to draw the eye and unfinished enough to invite questions. Then I met the woman who built it. Visitors reach Shirley Kennedy ’ s home across sheets of plywood laid over the mud and enter from the side. Across the opening where a formal entrance may one day stand, two large paintings she made while studying art slide into place as protection from the weather. Inside, reclaimed hardwood beams hold one immense room filled with books, pottery, canvases, photographs, newspaper clippings and preserved catalogues. The house is home, studio, workshop and archive. Its contents are abundant, but not accidental. Shirley knows what she has and why it matters. Her own path into art was hard won. The seventh of nine children in a farming family, she recalls being told that art was “ a joke”. She did not ente...